most men accept the humiliation of being conned with a sense of resignation. they learn their lesson, recognizing that there is no such thing as a free lunch, and that they have usually been brought down by their own greed for easy money. some, however, refuse to take their medicine. instead of reflecting on their own gullibility and avarice, they see themselves as totally innocent victims. men like this may seem to be crusaders for justice and honesty, but are actually immoderately insecure. being fooled, being conned, has activated their self-doubt, and they are desperate to repair the damage
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